Kawm paub yuav ua li cas kom tshem tawm cov lus ntxiv ntawm koj cov lus thiab nce qib koj txoj kev sib txuas lus. Tau txais kev ntseeg thiab txhim kho koj tus kheej hom nrog cov txheej txheem ua haujlwm.
Hauv txoj kev loj hlob ntawm kuv lub zos me, kuv tsis tau paub tias muaj pes tsawg lo lus filler kuv siv txog thaum kuv pib ua TikToks. Neb, cia kuv qhia koj - pom kuv tus kheej rov qab yog qhov txaus ntxub tiag! Li no, um, koj paub txog dab tsi kuv hais?
Qhov Tseeb nqaim txog Peb Cov Lus
Cia peb xav ntau npaum li cas. Peb txhua tus muaj cov lub sijhawm ntawd thaum peb tab tom tham, thiab peb lub hlwb poob npaum li cas. Nws yog thaum cov lo lus ceeb toom ntawd ntsuam tso - "ums," "likes," thiab "koj paub" uas ua rau peb yog tias nyiam nyuaj dua li peb yog tiag. Kuv tau paub txog qhov no cov cuab yeej tshuaj ntsuam lus uas hloov pauv kuv tus kheej, thiab kuv xav tsom kwm saib qhov ntau npaum li cas nws tau pab kuv nce qib kuv tus kheej hu rau.
Vim Li Cas Filler Words Yuav Ua Rau Koj Dhau Sab
Nov yog qhov tshwm sim: lo lus filler yog feem ntau yog cov hniav ncav uas peb qhuab nqa thaum peb:
- Nervous txog kev tham
- Sim xav txog dab tsi yuav tsum hais tom ntej
- Ntseeg txog qhov nyuaj silences
- Yuav kom muaj coob leej xav tshaj
Tab sis qhov no yog qhov teeb meem - cov lus no tiag tiag yog ua kom peb hnov tsis muaj tswv yim thiab yuav cuam tshuam ntau npaum li cas los ntawm tus neeg saib peb, txawm peb nyob rau hauv kev xam phaj haujlwm, muab cov thib ib, lossis tsuas yog sim ua cov ntaub ntawv uas zoo nkauj.
Qhov Tsi Tiag ntawm Koj Tus Kheej Npe
Tsis muaj cap, kuv thaum ub xav tias cov lo lus filler ua rau kuv hnov zoo dua thiab muaj kev nco. Tab sis thaum kuv pib muab kuv cov khoom tsim khoom heev dua, kuv pom tias lawv tiag tiag nkag tau pom kuv. Koj tus kheej npe yog txhua yam hauv lub ntiaj teb digital hnub no, thiab cov no yuav ua:
- Ua rau koj pom tias tsis muaj txuj ci
- Tsawg
- Ua kom tsis pom tseeb ntawm cov ntsiab hauv kab lis kev cai
- Teeb pom ntawm koj cov lus tseem ceeb
- Tsawg ntawm koj cov cuam tshuam tag nrho
Ua Li Cas Thiaj Ua Kom Koj Thawj Lus Ua Mus
Yog li, kuv pib siv qhov AI-powered speech analyzer no, thiab bestie, nws yog qhov hloov pauv. Nws zoo li having a personal speaking coach uas qhib txhua "um" thiab "like" hauv sijhawm tiag. Qhov zoo tshaj? Koj tuaj yeem xyaum txhua qhov chaw - hauv koj chav, thaum koj mus, lossis thaum koj npaj rau qhov txawv tseem ceeb ntawd.
Nov yog dab tsi kuv kawm txog kev txhim kho koj cov lus:
- Ci los ntawm tus kheej tham ncaj qha
- Tshawb xyuas cov tshuaj ntsuam kom pom koj cov lo lus filler feem ntau
- Xyaum muaj cov sijhawm rau kev txiav txim
- Siv cov cuab yeej kom ruaj khov kom cuam tshuam
- Focus on speaking more slowly and deliberately
Qhov Twg Ƙo Ntsujplig Hnov Koj
Tsis muaj joke, thaum kuv pib ua haujlwm los tshem tawm kuv cov lo lus filler, kuv pom cov hloov pauv loj:
- Kuv TikTok videos tau txais coob engagement dua
- Cov neeg pib coj kuv ntau dua nrog kev txhawb siab
- Kuv cov lus yog zaws teeb pom kev thiab zyaub dua
- Kuv hnov zoo dua hauv kuv qhov kev tham
Cov Thawj Qhov Taw Qhia Tsi Tiag
Cia kuv qhia koj qee txoj kev uas tiag tiag pab kuv:
Qhuas Qhov Sijhawm
Hinstead of filling silence with "um" or "like," hnub ci nco qab cov sijhawm quiet no. Nws yog thawj ncej cov ntawv thiab ua rau koj hnov Thoughtful thiab hloov.
Xyaum Nco Txog Qhov Tsev
Ua ntej koj pib hais, muab ob peb vib nas this siv sijhawm kom npaj koj cov tswv yim. Qhov no yuav txo qhov xav tau rau cov filler thiab pab koj hu zoo dua.
Siv Cov Lus Hu Ua
Txhob xav lo lus filler nrog cov toj nqi zoo li "specifically," "importantly," lossis "consider this." Nws yog qhov hloov tshiab tam sim ntawd ntawm koj qhov kev ncaj ncees.
Qhov Kev Xav ntawm Qhov Hnyav
Nov yog qhov tseem ceeb - tsis muaj leej twg zoo tag, thiab peb txhua tus siv cov lo lus filler ib txwm. Tab sis txuas los ntawm qhov no thiab ua kom haum ntawm lawv yuav ua rau tib neeg kho siab tuaj rau qhov tib tiag, thiab yuav ua rau koj hu tau zoo.
Ua Ib Yam Zoo
Tuav qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev vam meej yog kev ruaj khov. Kuv qhia 10 feeb txhua hnub kom muaj cwj pwm hauv qhov lus thaum muab cov cuab yeej tshuaj ntsuam. Nws zoo li mus sab gym tab sis rau koj cov kev qhia - cov ntaub ntawv me me, txhua txhua hnub ua rau kev hloov pauv loj dhau ib ntus.
Lub Koom Haum ntawm Kev Txhawb
Hauv kev kho ntsig ntawm ib lub ntiaj teb digital-first, nrog tus yeeb yam thiab saib zoo dua. Txawm koj yog:
- Tsim cov ntsiab lus
- Kawm tus kheej hnub
- Nce koj txoj haujlwm
- Ua thawj coj
- Sab nraud
Tsuas yog tshuam qhov tseeb,yszer plhuag más lo lus qhia tus kheej.
Qhov Qhov kawg
Nco ntsoov, kuv tsis nkag siab tias koj yuav tsum ua kom tiav txhua los filler - qhov ntawd yuav heev heev thiab tej zaum yuav ua rau koj hnov amusing. Qhov goal yog kom paub tab dua thiab tiv thaiv kom nrog koj cov lus. Xyaum me me, tshuaj xyuas koj cov kev txhim kho, thiab zoo siab rau koj cov nce qib.
Nco ntsoov, nws tsis yog qhov pom zoo - tab sis nws yog kom zoo dua li hnub ua ntej. Xaiv txoj txheej txheem, siv cov cuab yeej hauv koj lub tshuab, thiab saib koj li hluas pob zeb txav. Koj tus kheej yuav ua tsaug rau qhov ua haujlwm tam sim no.
Tam sim no mus thiab ua kom tiag rau koj txoj hauj lwm! Thiab tsis txhob hnov qab ua tsaug rawv kuv tom qab thaum koj muab TED talks thiab mus viral ntawm TikTok nrog koj cov nyiaj ceev cev.
