Ako me pehea te tango i ngā kupu whakakī i tō kōrero mō te kōrero mārama, me te whai mana. Whakatōhia ō hui, rā, me ngā whakawhitinga pāpori i te wā e tuku ana i te pūmanawa o te tangata matua.
Kia mau ki te pono - kua tae mātou katoa ki reira. Kei te ngana koe ki te noho whai wāhi i te hui, i te rānui, engari ko ngā "umms" me ngā "likes" e haere ana i te tere atu i te chancla o tāku kuia i a au e he ana i tāna whare te wā. Hei te tangata i pūmau ki ngā reo tokorua, e mōhio ana au ki te whai wāhi ki ngā kupu taapiri. Engari, he pēhea te mea: ka taea e ēnei "crutches" kōrero te whakapūmau i te kaha i te pā ki a koe kāore pea e mōhio ana koe.
He aha nga Kupu Taapiri Kāore e Tika
Whakaarohia tēnei: kua tae tō wāhi kia pā ki tō whakaū, ki tō whakaari anō ki tō kaiwhakahaere, ā, ka kitea koe e "like" ana ia i ngā toronga e toru. Ehara tēnei i te kaha o te kaiwhakahaere, nē? E taea ana e ngā kupu taapiri te hanga i te āhua kāore e tino mōhio ana, kāore hoki e tino whai mana - ko te whakaheke i taua kaha o te tangata matua kei te ngana koe ki te mahi.
Ngā kupu taapiri e taea ana te whakaheke i tō kāla:
- Um/Uh
- Like
- E mohio ana koe
- Tino
- Pōti
- Ko
- I tētahi kēhi/ I tetahi taha
Te Hinengaro i Ténei Tohu Kōrero
Kāore e taea te riria, engari he pūtaiao whakamiharo e pā ana ki te take ka whakawhirinaki mātou ki ēnei "crutches" kōrero. I te wā e hiahia ana te roro ki tētahi wā pōtu, ka tāpiritia e ia ēnei kupu-kawai hei whakakī i te noho pātea. Hei pēnā mai i te wā e tunu ana koe, e tāpiri ana i ngā tohutoro anō i te wā kāore e tino mōhio ana i te rongo - i ētahi atu wā, ko te iti he nui, e hoa.
Pāngia Tō Mahi Whakapā
Kua rite koe ki te tuku kaha tangata matua? Anei te huarahi hei whakaora i tāu kōrero, ka puta ai koe hei tangata motuhake i taua hoa e whakahaere ana i tāna ora (e mōhio ana mātou ki tētahi):
1. Tanuku i te Tohu Tū
I te wā e tukuna ana e koe he "um," whakamātau i tēnei: tango i tētahi tikanga. Koina! Ka pā he pai. Kāore e ngāwari te pātea; he kaha. Whakaarohia ngā pānga TikTok - ko te tanukutanga i mua i te whakapā kāinga he mea motuhake.
2. Whakarite i te Māramatanga
Tīmata ki te tuhinga i a koe anō i te wā e kōrerohia ana (me te whakaae, i te mea he tino). I te tukuna e au i taku taimaha o ngā kupu taapiri kua pire koe i taku wera i te tau hiriwa i te wā e tīmata ana au te whakamahi i tēnei taputapu ātaahua e mārama ana i ngā pūnaha kōrero i te wā. He huri kē, kāore e hē.
3. Tēnā Tō Tere, E Hoa
Ehara koe i te kaipāho e wātea ana ki te huri i nga record o Eminem (ina hoki koe, kāti, e haere mai). Ko te kōrero i te tere iti e tuku atu ana mō tō roro ki te mātakitaki me te tautuhi i ngā whakaaro. Nā reira, he tino ngawari, he mea nui ki te kīnaki i ngā wātaka.
Te Whakarite i te Hono Ki te Tū
Anei te mea e pā ana ki te whakamutu i ngā kupu taapiri - kāore he whakahaere ki te pātea, engari he painga te pātea. I te wā e kōrero ana koe i runga i te whakaritenga, kei te piki ake tō whakawhirinaki. He pēnei me te tango i te taonga e whakatū ana i a koe i ngā wā katoa. Ko te kōrero marama = ko te kaha marama.
Ngā Tūtohu Hāngai mō te Pānga Momotu:
- Tirohia te tuhinga ka tautuhi i ngā kupu taapiri e pā ana ki a koe
- Whakamahia te "like" ki ngā whakamārama pono
- Tōrua "um" te wā e wātea ana ki te tanuku kaha
- Whakaritehia me ngā hoa ka mau i te pono ki a koe
- Whakamahia ngā taputapu hei painga mōu (ae, tāna tūtohi kōrero i kōrerotia i runga i)
Te Huringa Tikanga
Me kōrero tātou e pā ana ki te mea e whai whakaaro ana i te tau 2024. I roto i te ao e pā ana ki ngā whakaritenga tuatahi e tupu ana i ngā mata o te rorohiko me te kaupapa poto, ko te kōrero māhorahora tō superpower. Ahakoa kāore koe e:
- Te Mahia TikTok
- Te Whakatū i tō āhua
- Te Riahua (i te ao, i te ipurangi)
- Te Tūturu i ngā hui
- Te Whakarite i ngā ihirangi
Ka whakaahua tō kōrero i tā ngā iwi e pā ana ki a koe. Ā, e whakapono ana au, hei te tangata i heke mai ki whiriwhiri i te reo Ispania i te kāinga me te pānui i te reo ingarihi i ngā wā katoa, e mōhio ana au ki te kaha o te kōrero i runga i te whakaritenga.
Te Huarahi Whakaōrite
Kia maumahara, kāore tēnei e pā ana ki te huri i te pātea i runga i te rangi - e pā ana ki te whakaū me te whakakahu, kāore e pā ana ki te hātepe whakakā. Tīmata i ngā mea iti:
- Aroha ki tētahi kupu taapiri i te wā.
- Whakaritehia i ngā wā e pōti tika ana.
- Whakamihi i ngā hua iti.
- Koru ki te pono ki a koe anō.
Whakaarohia hei pātea rangatira - ko te pātea pātea te mea nui, ā, ko ngā hua ka haere mai me te wā. Kāore e taea te mau tonu i ngā hōtaka kōrero, ā, kāore te huri i a rātou ka tae ki te rangi.
Ka Tautoko i te Whakaaturanga
Ko te mea pai? I ngā wā e tīmata ai koe ki te noho i te whai wāhi ki ngā kupu, ka kitea e te iwi. Ka whakararangihia ngā whakaaro ki te kaha, ka noho ko tō ahua ki te wīra ko e tika, ā, ka riro mai koe te tangata e tirohia ana i ngā hui. E pā ana ki te kaha tangata matua, kua tāpiri.
Kia maumahara, kāore te whakawhirinaki e pā ana ki te noho kāore e hāngai - e pā ana ki te whakaatu i te pono me te whakaritenga. Nā reira, i ngā wā e kite ana koe i a koe e ngana ana ki te tuku he "um" pūnei hei kōhuatanga, tanukuhia, tango i te manawa, ā, whakamōhio mai i a koe anō: kei a koe tēnei. Ko ngā kupu āu he kaha, whakamahi i ēnā.
Kāore hoki e whānui, ko te mahi i runga i tō kāwanatanga te mea tino pai, ka taea e koe te tango i a koe. Kāore he mea pātea ki te huri ki ō rātou, ko te mea e pā ana ki te whiti mai ki ō whai wāhi ki te kōrero. Ā, ko te tākinga e hiahia ana iwi ki te pā i te tau 2024.
Nō reira, haere ki mua, ka tuku i te whakawhirinaki, e hoa. Kua tīmata tō wāhanga kāore i pā te kupu. 💅
