Funda amagama abalulekile okufanele ugweme ezindaweni zebhizinisi nokuthi ungakhuluma kanjani ngokuzethemba nangokprofessional. Qinisa izwi lakho ukuze uphumelele emkhakheni wezebhizinisi!
Let me spill the tea on what separates the corporate queens from the rest! As someone who's been studying workplace communication (and lowkey obsessing over corporate TikTok), I've noticed some major differences in how successful professionals talk.
Mawu a No-No Osalira
Mumvenga abale, ngati mukufuna kupita patsogolo pa malonda, muyenera kusiya mawu ena mbuu. Ngati, mwachisoni. Ganizirani izi ngati zovala za cargo mu chiyankhulo chanu – zingakhale zosangalatsa, koma sizikuthandizani mu boardroom.
"Chifukwa" ndi M'bali Yake "Um"
Nonse, sindingakane kuchuluka kwa nthawi zomwe ndakumwa ndichita "chifukwa" mu malo ogwira ntchito. Ndi chilangalanga chachikulu cha kuwonekera mu meeti mu PJs zanu. Mawu awa amathandiza kuti muzitheka kuda nkhawa komanso kusagwira ntchito, komwe si chinthu chomwe tikufuna.
Usati muzi, ndinstarted kugwiritsa ntchito chida china chachikulu cha ndiwe chikucheza zomwe zimathandiza kupeza mawu awa osaziwika. Zakhala zotsogolera pa mapresentations anga! Ngati mukudandaula ndi mawu osachita yang'anani chida ichi – ikupanga mphamvu za mutu wanu mu chitukuko cha malonda.
"Chonly" – Kuyeretsa Mwachangu
"Ndinzochita pazomwe zimachitika..." "Ndinakhulupilira kuti..." "Ndinzozunga ngati..."
Mwamuna, tikhala! Palibe china "chonly" pa ntchito yanu. Mawu awa amakhala ofookeza kupezeka kwanu ndipo amalola zomwe mukufunsa kuti zikhale za chisankho. Simuchitadi "chonly" - mukuchita kuchita, poletsa.
"Chikonzero" (Pamene Simukuchita)
Kuchuluka kwa nthawi zomwe ndapemphera pa zomwe ndikukhala mu malo ogwira ntchito kuli ponse. Tiyenera kumangoyang'ana:
- Kufunsa mafunso
- Kupanga mawu mu makonzedwe
- Kukumbukira pa maimelo
- Kutenga malo
Khalani "chikonzero" pamene mukugwirizana pamene mukusokoneza kudzelera kapena kudya chakudya chanu chotchedwa mu chumba chokhudza (chomwe, BTW, sichimayendetsedwa, Karen).
"Mmaybe" ndi "Ndimaganiza"
Mawu awa akupanga mpweya wopanga kutenga galimoto. Pamene mukuti: "Mmaybe tikuweza..." "Ndimaganiza kuti izi zitha kugwira ntchito..."
Mukufunsa ufundo kuti mukhale ndi chiganizo. Pansipa, onetsetsani: "Ndimakonda kuyitana..." "Pochitika pa kuchita kwanga..." "Chiphunzitso changa ndi..."
"M'manje" ndi "M'njira"
Mawuwu a zodabwitsa amafalitsa kukhala ndi khama mu prezentation. Amayankha masamu anu kuti alowe mu magulu. Ngati zinthu ndi, zili. Ngati sitikupanga, sizili. Palibe pakati pa chiyankhulo cha abale abwino.
Kulimbana ndi "Chimodzi"
Ndikudziwa kuti ndichikukondani (ndichimene ndichakonda), koma mu malo ogwira ntchito, kukuchitira mavuto. Makaniyeni mu ma brunch anu ndi ma comments a TikTok.
"Popanda Zinthu" vs. M'njira Yoona
Ngati "popanda zinthu" ikutha kuonekeratu nokha ndi wachikhalidwe, sichimakhala chibasima mu malo ogwira ntchito. M'malo mwake, lowani:
- "Zikomo chifukwa cha pansi pa nthawi yanu"
- "Ndimatengera kudziwa"
- "Ndine wokondwa kuthandiza"
Njira izi zimapanga zambezo ndipo zikuwonetsa kuti mukuchita malonda.
Kukhala Bwino kwa Maola a Imelo
Ntchito yanu ya imelo ikufunika kukhala pa nzeru. Pachita:
- "Hello a timu"
- "Pansi pa [tsiku/nyengo]"
- "Kukumbukira" kapena "Kukankha"
Njira Yokulitsa Chikondi
Pano pa izi - kuchotsa mawu awa si chinthu chabwino. N'chifukwa chiyani muwonetsetseni kuti tikukhala ndi udindo. Pamene mukulankhula bwino, anthu amawaona. Pamalizireni.
Phunziro la Kukonza
- Lembani nokha pa nthawi ya maphunziro
- Gwiritsani ntchito zofunikira za AI kuthana ndi mawu anu osalankhula
- Yambani mndandanda wanu "mawu kwa mphamvu"
- Gwirani pakakhala kuti nthawi zomwe zingathe kuchita ndi anzanu kapena mu chithunzi
- Tsegulani kuyesa kwa oyang'anira
Chinyengo Chomaliza
Kumbukirani mafumu, ndi bwino kuchita wonjeza kukuchokera pa mawu anu. Ndi chake chakudya chaja - shintani kuchokera pa mawu anu. Kumene kulelegekera kwa mutu; ali kutali mawu ambiri.
Nyengo ya makampani singaonekere kukhala kukhudza, koma ndi zida zoyenera pamene wakale, mukuthandiza kwambiri. Yambani pang'onopang'ono, khalani ochezeka, ndipo winukeni momwe zochepa zomwezi zimachitira bwino pazochitika zanu.
Ndiye, onetsetsani, tikhala tikuona - nzika mpweya. Kukhala ndi udindo wanu, onetsetsani kuti ikugwira ntchito kwanu, osati pa mkhalidwe. Tsopano pitani patsogolo ndipo miphunzira mu ma meeti anu ngati akulu omwe muli! ✨💅🏼
