Dziwani njira zatsopano za mthunzi wa thupi za Vinh Giang zomwe zimachititsa kuti public speaking ya chizolowezi ikhale chithunzi chothandiza, kuti uthenga wanu uzikhala ndi mphamvu kwa omvera.
Kulimbikira
Kuyankhulana m’bopeni nthawi zambiri kumakumbukiridwa ndi anthu odziwika bwino akuphunzitsa mawu abwino kuchokera ku podium yokhala ndi maikrofoni. Komabe, pansi pa pamwamba pa mawu kumakhalabe ntchito za maunire osalankhula—chinsalu cha thupi chingathe kutenga dziko la anthu kapena kuchititsa wogulitsa asapezeke. Pita ku Vinh Giang, munthu wochita zinthu mu madera ya kuyankhulana m’bopeni, yemwe akupikisana ndi kutengera mawu okha. Mawu ake? “Khalani Ndi Mawu, Yambitsani Kuchita Masewera.” Ndi kuthandiza njira za maunire osalankhula, Giang akusintha mawu omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito m’nkhani zothandiza kukhala zochititsa chidwi. Nkhaniyi imafufuza njira zake zatsopano, ikupereka kusakaniza kwa nzeru za chiyankhulidwe ndi kugwiritsa ntchito pogwiritsa ntchito kuti mwachikhalidwe mukukweza luso lanu la kuyankhulana m’bopeni.
mphamvu ya maunire m’bopeni
Antes ya kuyankha njira za Giang, ndikofunika kumvetsetsa ntchito yofunika ya maunire m’kuyankhulana komwe kumathandiza popanda mawu. Zidziwitso zikuwonetsa kuti 55% ya kuyankhulana sikonkhala mawu, pamene mawu amafika pakali pamakhalidwe 7%, ndipo mawu a m’khalidwe amafika pakali 38%. Izi zikutsindika malingaliro omaliza kuti momwe mumalankhulira zinthu nthawi zambiri kumakhala kofunika kuposa zomwe mukulankhula.
Maunire akuphatikiza maonekedwe, chizindikiro, zolinga, ndi kutuluka. Mukakwanitsa kugwiritsa ntchito bwino, zina zitha kuthandiza masanjidwe, kuanetsa maganizidwe, ndi kulimbikitsa ubale ndi anthu. Ngakhale izi, maunire osakhala bwino angathandize kupangitsa kuti maganizidwe asakhulupiriridwe, kupindika oyang’anira, komanso kuzenga mawu omwe alibe chikhumbo. Kudziwitsa, Giang akulangiza kupita ku njira yochita zonse, osati kuchita zomwe akulankhula okha.
Njira Yachikhalidwe ya Vinh Giang
Njira ya Vinh Giang si yokhudza kuwawovola mawu koma kuwonjezera mawu a maunire mwachimwemwe. Philosophy yake ikukatenga mtima pamlingo wachifundo chomwe chingathe kulimbikitsa mawu, kukopa anthu pa mwezi wapamwamba, ndikuletsa ndondomeko ya mawu komanso matenda. Ndi kuthandiza kuyankhulana m’bopeni ngati nyimbo, Giang akukonda kuyang’anira mawu anu osanja pamafunde, akupanga maonero ogwirizana komanso okopa.
Njirayi amalimbikitsa kukhala ndi mawu, pomwe maunire akugwirizana ndi mawu, akukhala ndi mawu olonjeza komanso omveka bwino. Njira zotsatirazi zimayambitsa pakugwiritsa ntchito sajati ya udindo komanso nzeru, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti njira yake ikhale yotsimikizika komanso yogwiritsidwa ntchito.
Njira #1: Masewera a Maunire
Giang akugwirizanitsa kugwiritsa ntchito maunire kuthandiza kulimbikitsa mphambano zamtengo wapatali. Osati mawu osateka kapena osankhidwa, njira yake ikufuna kuti maunire akwenye zotsatira zomwe zimakhudza zomwe zikukambidwa. Mwachitsanzo, pamene akukambirana kukula kapena kuchepa, maunire akukhala ochepa pang’ono akhoza kuwonetsa chinsinsiri cha chikhumbo. Pamalamba, kutengera zola zizikumbukiridwa kapena kulimbikitsa kumatha kuyang’anira kuchuluka kapena kuchepa.
Kukhala Kwamakono:
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Dziwani Zochitika Zofunika: M’mbuyomo, chita pamafuno a maganizo kungakuthandizeni kukonza kutumiza kapena kulimbikitsaunikira.
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Sinthani Maunire: Ayi maunire anu n’zamalu aulere m’magazi aanu ya pa pệnhz ndi yachitatu. Izi zikuchita pamene maganizo anu akukhala kwa pansk.
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Yesani Kukhulula: Kumbukirani maunire mpaka akhale amphamvu, tikukhala ndondomeko ya malinga ndiyo yonse izi zikhala pa imodzi. Chiyembekezo ndi chikhulupiriro chokwanira.
Njira #2: Kukonza Mwa Chiwanja
Kupita kwamakono kutali, Giang akufuna kuti mawonetsedwe mwakataneti mu mlingo wa akukhala. Izi zikuphatikizapo kuthandiza gulu lodzaza kupita, kukumbukira chithunzi cha anthu omukayik'n kuti akhale owawa.
Kukhala Kwamakono:
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Malamulo Asitezi: Kutsatila zinthu zanu zinthu zitatu—all times, zothandizira, ndi zotsatila. Mukamatulutsira kuzi ndiye kukhala chitsanzo chowoneka bwino.
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Kuwerengera Maumboni: Kuukhala ndizokonda peremo. Kutsatila zomwe zatitsatila kuti muwonetsere zokonda.) Pano, poyenda mowolowa, kumatuma kwa mafupi.
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Kukhala Chiwerengero: Yizani kamodzi ngati mlingo obenjenya kuti mukhalebe osakanikirana.
Njira #3: Chitukuko monga Kuletsa
Chibwenzi chomwe chingakhuthize mapangidwe a maganizidwe, komanso chingasinthe njira yochitira ochita. Njira ya Giang ikuphatikizapo chiyanjano cha maonekedwe a mtima, kungatopole ndikumagwira ntchito zanu, kupatula mawu atatu monga chinsinsi.
Kukhala Kwamakono:
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Kumbukirani Maonekedwe: Kwankhani chibwenzi chanu chomwe chimakuyankhulani mawu—kuyankhulana akamalankhula mwakhalatu maganizidwe.
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Khalani Wokhala Mumadala: Khalani pa mfundo yanu, chiyanjano ndi kuoneka kwabwino uchitidwe. Choncho, linganinso ndale mokulitsa chiyanjano cha dzina.
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Maonekedwe Ochepa: Ndandanda wafinyama a mtima umboma. Maonekedwe omwe mwalimba akhoza kukhala kwachipani choyenda, pomwe kuteteza kunyumba.
Kutumiza Makhalidwe: Malangizo Othandiza
Kuonjezera mzimu wa Giang kuti akhale maziko a maganizidwe mu umodzi mwakukula mwachitukuko, mwina malangizo ogwirizira oteteza mapangidwe.
1. Kupanga Kanema
Kusungidwa kwamawamanga akukhala mphambu. Mutate chifu cingakuthandizeni!
2. Kukwanira Kenaka
Kuphunzirani pansipa* pasana, wokumbukila kuti mukhale patali, mukupanga wogulira mawu.
3. Mitundu Yothandiza
Pangani mpaka kutali kwerenga anthu opanda.Mukukhala malowa, zimachita kutumbikila kuda.
4. Malinganizo Ndipo Kutengeka
Aliyi akasakikia n’dalamucho, pamene woyang’anira akupangitsa.
5. Kugwiritsa njira Yolimbikira
Ngakhale maunire kuzosowa, akhala partra, mwina kuwamaso kutalire. Khala mwachitukukuki.
Kukwaniritsa Zovuta Zatsopano
Kukhalabe mwamphamvu pamene chiyanjancho chiyenera kukhala chobwereza. Sangalalani mu kumanga mtendere wa mawu achiyanjano, ayi chenjezo, pamene chiwongolola padziko zikhaladi.
1. Lembani Kutupwa
Kusankha uzi uyo akuyenda muyenera mwachabeli. Kupeza uzi wokonzakaniza chisankhulo, anti umachitang Analyst.
2. Khalani kwa Chiwerengero
Mappulani akangomankhira mwachikhalidwe. Uyo nthawi imene, mukakhala, chomwe mwasankhidwa.
3. Ntchito Yamakono Ndipo Wopindula
Ngati mukupanga mawonekedwe, manyazisi ali, mutorente bwino.
4. Sumani Kumanzinga Kwa Anthu
Mukupanga zodziwika mwachizolowezi. Kusinthika kumsika, ndizoyenera, popanga.
5. Kuphunzira Ngakhale Kusanthula
Kuyankhula kwapang’onopang’ono. Khale panjira yokumbukila kuti.
Kuthandiza: Mphalalira ya Kusankhira Kumanzinga Mwa Mtima
Njira za Giang zikumanga kusintthanalira mtima ndi mawu. Mu kumanga mtima mwamphamvu, mukukwaniritsa kuchotsa mawu oyenera.
Khalilani mauka, chiyanjani ndi mawu anu, kuti muyankhe mwapafupi.
