Uphando lweziphumo zokuba nguGen Z'er ngaphandle kokusebenzisa iifiller, kugxininiswa kubaluleko bokuxhumana okucacileyo nokungqinelanayo kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo.
Umdlalo UyiNyaniso, Bestie
OMG, singathetha ngento esihlala engqondweni yam ngaphandle kokuhlawulela? Nansi, ngikhangela ama-FYPs ami (njengoba abantu benza), ngithola lo mqondo omkhulu - ngiyena umngane ongashiywanga ohlangothini lokuthi "ukukhuluma ngendlela efanele." 💀
Isikhathi Somlingiswa Esashintsha Ontanga Bonke
Cabanga lokhu: ngilahlekelwa yiziqhingi zami eRoma, ngirekhoda iTikTok yami yezigidi mayelana nezinto ezimangalisayo zeTrastevere, lapho umgibeli wami uphonsa le ngxoxo: "Sofia, kungenzeka ukuthi ungowesilisa ongenakusho 'njengoba' njalo ngamasekhondi amabili." Futhi ngikhona, ngiwumthombo, ngoba akakhalanga?
I-Twist yeMidlalo Ongayiboni
Nansi intambo - ngangizakhe lowo mntwana owayengekhona ukudala amazwi amathathu ngaphandle kokuphonsa "njengoba" noma "um." Kodwa ngesikhathi sokuphumula kwami (i-energi yomlingiswa, ngiyazi), ngathola le nto ebalulekile. Akukwazanga ukugcinwa, kodwa kukhona le thuluzi eyaba umngane wami omkhulu ekuxhumaneni. Iyakwenza kube yi-AI ihlangana nomqeqeshi wezinkulumo, futhi iqinisekisa ukuhambisa kwakho ngezikhathi zangempela ukuhamba lezo zinto ezishayekayo.
Izindaba Zokuthokozisa
Akukho cap, ukuguqula inkulumo yakho kuwukuphila okukhulu. Nansi okwenzekile lapho ngithatha isinqumo sokwengeza umphakathi wami:
Isonto lokuqala? Ika yize yokuhlanya. Ngikhombisa "i-deer in headlights" ngempela njalo uma ngivula umlomo wami. Kodwa bestie, intuthuko? I-Immaculate. Kufana nokuthi uma ugcina ukhulisa leyo TikTok dance ngemuva kokuzilungiselela isikhathi eside - ngokush sudden konke kuyahambisana.
Ukukhuluma Ngemivuzo
Kungekho mina ngihlezi lapha ngihlezi ngikhandleka W's ngoba ngithole izidingo zami:
Iguquko lokuzethemba? Okukhulu. Lapho ungaboni ngeso lengqondo elikhuluma, uphila kakhulu.
Izimo zobuchwepheshe? Siphila ngezinga le-CEO. Umphathi wami wolwazi uphika ngokuthi ngingu-Gen Z ngemuva kokuhlangana kwethu kokuqala (ukubukeka okukodwa kodwa kulungile).
Idating scene? Masitshayele nje sithi ukukhuluma kahle kubonakala ngayo umlingiswa omkhulu, futhi abafana bayakubona. Period.
Umdlalo Uthintwa: Ingxenye yezenhlalo
Iqiniso lokujabulisa: Okuqukethwe kwami kwaqala ukushaya ezinye uma ngihlanza inkulumo yami. Lezi zinhlelo zokuhamba? Ukukhombisa ubuhlakani. Ukubuyisela ukudla? U-Gordon Ramsay akakwazanga. Isigaba sezibuyekezo sahlala sigcwele "wait, unjani okukhuluma kahle?" futhi mina ngikhona njengemoto 💅
Umsebenzi Ohlobene
Kulungile, umsebenzi wokuhlola - kwesinye isikhathi kuba yinkinga. Njengoba ulishaya kwabanye besties nezikhangiso eziphosa "njengoba" njenge-confetti, bese uhamba ubalulekile njenge-TED talk. Kodwa nansi into - kubonisa ukuthuthukiswa komlingiswa, futhi angizange ngithokozise ngakho.
I-Twist yeMidlalo: Ngempela Akuyona Le Ndaba Ekupheleni
Nansi into mayelana nokuba "lokho" umngane owakhuluma ukuhluke - kuba uphawu lwakho. Futhi ngo-2025, ukuphuma phambili kuyinto elula. Futhi, masithethe iqiniso - emhlabeni lapho wonke umuntu ezama ukukhuluma ngendlela efanayo, ukuhamba kahle kubukeka ngezinyathelo eziyi-iconic?
Uhlobo Lwethu Luyingxenye (Ngaphandle kokugcinwa Lapha)
Kuma-girlies ami (nabaningi) abafuna ukwakha uphawu lwabo lokukhuluma, nansi ipulani:
Qala ngokurekhoda okwakho. Yebo, kukhuluma. Yebo, uzokwenqaba. Yenze noma kunjalo.
Sebenzisa amathuluzi wokuhlaziya inkulumo (iykyk) anikela ngempendulo ngesikhathi sangempela. Ngisebenzisa leli thuluzi le-AI lokuqeda amazwi. Kufana nokuba nomqeqeshi wokuqhakambisa ikhefu lamazwi.
Phatha ngezihloko ezingafani. Khetha okuthile ku-FYP yakho bese uzama ukukuchaza ngaphandle kwamazwi okwenkolo. Ttrust the process.
Phila Impilo Yakho Engcono
I-glow-up akukhona kuphela ngokwenza amazwi akho ahlanzekile - kubalulekile ukuba nomlomo wakho futhi ube nemigqa yomlingiswa omkhulu 24/7. Futhi ake ngikutshele, uma uqala ukukhuluma ngenhloso, kubukeka "lo mntwana" ngcono kakhulu.
Izindawo Zokugcina (Ngoba Siphila Ngempela)
Ngakho nansi i-tea yangempela - ukuba nguMGen Z kuphela ongenakukhuluma ngezinkulumo ezishiwo "njengoba" akuwona umqondo engangicabanga ukuthi uyoba yiyo. Ngempela kuyakuhle. Kuqhamuka ekutholeni umyalezo wakho ophilayo emhlabeni wezidalwa ezikopela-kopela.
Futhi kwabanye abacabanga ukuqala ubuhlungu bazo nayiphi into - qiniseka ukuthi umphakathi wakho oyindilinga uzokubonga. Ngoba ekugcineni, akukhona ukuphila "kakhulu" noma noma yini. Kukukhombisa ukuzwakala yakho ngokuzethemba, ukuhambisa izimpi NO vocab, futhi mhlawumbe uthemba abanye abantu isikhathi somkhiqizo.
Akukho cap, nokho - lo msebenzi? Umklomelo omkhulu wokuphila. Futhi lokho kuyi-period, bestie. 💅✨
