Thola ukuthi ngiwaguqule kanjani amaphutha engxoxweni yami abe yindaba yokubuyiselwa okuhehayo ngokubhekana namakhono ami okuxhumana nokuphumelela emsebenzini wami ow夢!
Ubuhlungu Bami Bokuhlolwa (Futhi Njengoba Ngiphuma Kule Nkinga!)
OMG besties, ngivumele ngabelane ngendaba ethusayo kodwa ebalulekile empilweni yami yesehlakalo! 🫣 Uyiya lezo zikhathi lapho ucabanga ukuthi unakho konke okulawulayo, bese impilo ikuphonsa embhalweni? Yebo, le yindaba ethile.
Ithuba Lezaba
Cabanga njalo: Intombazane yakho ithole ithuba lokuhlolwa nomunye wezinkampani ezishaya umoya eMiami. Sihlangabezana nenkampani ephethe imfashini ye-street style eSouth Beach. Ngilandele umhlahlandlela wabo kusukela babe besigcwele, manje sebewanda ngokuhamba kwezwe. Isikhundla? Umphakathi Wezokuxhumana Umphakathi - ngokwenene umsebenzi wami wombono!
Isigaba Sokulungiselela
Ngichithe izinsuku ngilungiselela. I-outfit yami? Ukuphelela – ibhlazari elithengwe ngezinto ezithengwe e-2nd hand elihambisana nezinto zami eziyisisekelo eziqhubekayo. Iphothifoliyo yami? I-oda! Ngabe ngibe nezithombe zezikampeni zami ezinhle kakhulu, amazinga okuzibophezela abaozobangela ukufisa noma umkhandlu wezokuxhumana, kanye nethuluzi eliningi eliyisipesheli lokwazisa.
Kodwa lapha lapho izimo ziba... zishintsha. 💀
Ubulunga Bokuhlolwa
Nginqobe kuleli gumbi lezingqungquthela ngizizwa sengathi ngiyinhliziyo, kodwa njengoba ngivula umlomo wami ukuze ngizichaze, kwangithinta. Igama elinye elithi "khona," "um," noma "uwazi." Ngibukeke njengomfula ophelile!
"Ngakho ke, ngempela ngijabule ngesikhalazo sokwakhiwa okuqukethwe, um, okubangela, uyazi, kunomthelela kwiGen Z..."
Bavulane, ngangizibona ngempela ukuhlola kwemibono ye-ntshumay. Ukuhleka okuhle kuhamba kahle kwaba okuthakazelisayo nokubhekwa kwabantu. Njengoba ngingibhadlisa kakhulu, kwaba namaqhinga. Kwakungathi ingqondo yami forgetukezile ukwakha izisho ezigcwele ngaphandle kokuzigcwalisa ngamazwi angenamsebenzi.
I-Wake-Up Call
Ngemuva kwalokho, ngathola i-imeyili ethukile ethi "Ngiyabonga ngesikhathi sakho, kodwa..." Ngashoda. Kodwa esikhundleni sokuhlala esimweni sami (kulungile, mhlawumbe ngahamba izinsuku ezimbili ngithokozisa imfashini), ngakhumbula ukuthi ngithole lokhu endaweni yokufunda.
Ukuthola Okuthokozisayo
Ngenkathi ngiphuma ezindaweni ze-TikTok (njengoba kulindelekile ngemuva kwemibhikisho yomsebenzi), ngathola ividiyo mayelana nokuxhumana okwenziwa ngabe. Umkhandlu uveze le ithuluzi eliwusizo lokususa amagama angalungile emlonyeni wakho. Kwaba njengokuthola ikhodi yokukhulisa imidlalo yakho yokuxhumana!
Uhambo Lokuguquka
Ngakhetha ukuqala ukuzijwayeza nale thuluzi nsuku zonke. Iqopha izwi lakho futhi isebenzisa i-AI ukuze ibonakale lezo zingxenye ezizimele emoyeni. Ingxenye engcono? Kufana nokuba nomqeqeshi wokuxhumana ongeke akhathele njalo ngesikhathi uzijwayeza.
Nansi okuthandayo engikufundile ngalesi sikhathi:
- Amagama angalungile avame ukuvela ngenxa yokukhathazeka nokungathathwa kokuphumula okwanele
- Ukuphumuza okuthule kwenza ukuba uzwe uthulele kahle
- Ukukhuluma kabusha kusiza ukujabulisa ukukhuluma kwakho kangcono
- Ukuziqopha kuyadukisa kodwa kuyalungile
Indaba Yokubuya
Phakathi týdokhwe ezinyangeni ezintathu zokuzijwayeza, bheka yini? Enye ithuba latholakala - kuleli thuba nale nkampani yemfashini enkulu!
Umehluko? Uhlanga nokuphila, bestie!
Esikhundleni se-"um" kanye ne-"khona" njalo ngemizuzwana emibili, ngakha ngothando. Lapho ngidinga isikhathi sokucabanga, ngathatha umkhawulo onokuzethemba esikhundleni sokugubha ngendaba ezihlekisayo. Umhloli wayevuliwe ukuba aphume ezikhangayo!
Ukushintsha Komqondo
Kungekudala kwangathi kodwa ukuphumelela ukuqhuba kahle, umphathi wokuqasha wancoma "amakhono akho aphezulu wokuxhumana" embhalweni wokunikezwa! Singakhuluma ngendawo ethokozisayo? 👏
Izifundo Zezintokazi (Nabangaphakathi!)
Nansi okuthandayo engifuna ukuthi uthole emlandweni wami:
- Amagama angalungile angakuthinta ukuthi ubukeke kanjani
- Ukudayisa kugcina kuwumkhiqizo wokuqala
- Ukusebenzisa amathuluzi alungile kwenza umphakathi ube yinhle
- Ukuziqopha kuyakhathaza kodwa kubalulekile
- Ukujabulisa kumamukelele kuvela ekulungeleleni
Iqiniso Lokukhuluma
Bheka, sonke sinesikhathi lapho sithola lezi zimpawu lapho sikhathazekile. Kwezinye, "khona," kwezinye, "ngokwengxenye" noma "ngempela." Umgomo akukhona ukuziphonsela emathunjini - menga kuyiqali kanye nohlelo.
Futhi hey, uma uthola ukuthi kukhona okukhathazayo, khumbula ukuthi nomuntu wakho Aisha wayekwenze lokhu! Ithuluzi engikukhuluma ngalo lisendaweni yokukhethela ukulungiselela ukuthola imihlangano ebalulekileyo, ukuthunyelwa, nokuhambela kweTikTok. Kuhlanya ukuthi ukuphathelene kokuhlala bumba futhi ngifunde ufunza.
I-End Happy
Namuhla, ngiyaphumelela emsebenzini wami omusha, ngiqamba izinhlelo eziphumelelayo, futhi ngizizwa nginethemba njalo lapho ngithumele ukukhuluma ezinhlangothini. Futhi njengoba ngisabamba sebenzisa amagama angalungile kwezinye izikhathi (siyabiza, eqinisweni!), ngazi kahle ukuthi ngizobhekana nokuthola.
Khumbula besties, yonke "um" kanye "khona" ingashintshwa ibe umkhawulo onamandla. Amazwi akho abalulekile, ngakho-ke enza kube neqhaza! Futhi uma uqhubeke nokulungiselela ukuhlola noma ukubonakalisa okubalulekile, zisholo uthole izinsizakusebenza zalokho. Ngiyathandaza, iwashi lakho elizayo lizokuthokozisa! ✨
Manje khetha izinkanyezi - iyini indaba yakho yokuhlolwa enkulu? Phakela kumazwana ngezansi! Futhi ungakhohlwa ukufaka izithombe ukuze uthole okuqhamukayo mayelana nezithombe zokukhula nezokuthuthukiswa komsebenzi! 💕
