Ukuqonda Amandla Okuxoxa Izigameko Ekukhulumeni Kwenhlangano
ukuxoxa izigamekoukukhulumela abantuULes Brownukubandakanywa

Ukuqonda Amandla Okuxoxa Izigameko Ekukhulumeni Kwenhlangano

Professor Harold Jenkins5/21/20244 min ukufunda

Ukukhulumela abantu kusekelwe ekuqinisekiseni isakhiwo, imizwa, nokubandakanywa, njengokwakhiwa kahle kwesigwebo. ULes Brown ubonisa lokhu ngokuxoxa izigameko ezikhangayo ezithokozisa ababukeli.

Ukuqonda Amandla Okuxoxa Ngendaba Ekukhulumeni Phakathi

Ukukhulumela ph publico, okufana nezisho ezilungiswe kahle, kuncike kulwazi lwezakhiwo, imizwa, nokubandakanywa. Umkhulumeli owazi kahle lezi zici nguLes Brown, odume ngokuxoxa izindaba ezikhangayo ezithokozisa izithameli emhlabeni jikelele. Ngokuhlonza indlela kaBrown, singathola izimfihlo ezibalulekile zokuguqula imizamo yethu yokukhuluma emphakathini ukusuka ezattempts eziphuthelayo zibe izinkumbulo ezingesabi.

Ubuciko Bokuhlangana: Ukuxhuma Nezithameli Zakho

ULes Brown uphucula ekwenzeni izindaba zakhe zibe nomthelela, okuyisici esibalulekile ekukhulumeni kahle emiphakathini. Uvame ukwabelana ngama-eksperiences akhe, ewafaka ezihlokweni eziyinqaba ezihambisana nezithameli ezahlukahlukene. Le ndlela ithuthukisa umuzwa wokuxhumana, okwenza abazwile babe nomuzwa wokwaziwa nokubandakanywa.

Ithempelo Esetshenziswayo: Ukuze ufanise ukujwayeleka kukaBrown, faka izenzakalo ezivela empilweni yakho ezihambelana nomyalezo ofuna ukuwudlulisa. Qinisekisa lezi zindaba zigcizelela izipiliyoni noma imizwa ejwayelekile, ivumela izithameli zakho ukuthi zibe nomuzwa wokufanisa nezindaba zakho.

Ukuhlela Indaba Yakho: Uhlaka Lokubandakanya

Indaba ehlelekile ifana nephakheji enamandla, iqondisa izithameli ukusuka ekuqaliseni kuya ekuphethweni kalula. Ukuxoxa izindaba kukaBrown kulandela uhlaka olucacile: kuqala ngengxoxo, kwakha ukungezwani ngezithiyo, bese kuphothulwa ngesixazululo noma isifundo. Lolu hlangothi alugcina kuphela ukuqwashisa kodwa kunceda futhi uqinisekise umyalezo ophakathi.

Ithempelo Esetshenziswayo: Uma ulungiselela ukukhuluma kwakho, bhalela ngendaba yakho ngokuqondile. Qala ngesitatimende noma umbuzo othokozisayo, uthuthukise indaba yakho ngokwethula izinkinga noma izithiyo, futhi uqedele ngencazelo ebalulekile ehambisana nendawo yakho eyinhloko.

Ukumukelwa Kwesizathu: Amandla Ekubhaleni

Izindaba zikaLes Brown uvame ukuveza ubukrakra bakhe, ezibeka njengomuntu ophilayo futhi onethemba. Lokhu kubonakaliswa kukhuthaza izithameli ukuba zivule ngempela, kuthuthukisa uxhumano olun deeper. Ngokwenza izinkinga zephefumulo nezinto ezithile, uBrown ubonisa ukuthi ukungabi nasici kungaba ithuluzi elinamandla ekuxoxeni ngezindaba.

Ithempelo Esetshenziswayo: Ungasabi ukuveza ubukrakra bakho ezikhulumweni zakho. Ukwabelana ngama-challenges noma ngezinto ozikhandlelayo kungathinta umyalezo wakho ngezenzakalo eziphumelelayo, ukwakha ukubonakala kwakho njengomkhulu.

Ukusebenzisa Uhlanya: Ukwehlisa Indaba

Uhlanya yithuluzi elinamandla ekukhulumeni emphakathini, futhi uLes Brown uyayigqugquzela ngokucophelela ukuze agcine kwazulu. Isebenzelana njengesixhaxha phakathi kokuqukethwe okukhulu nezikhathi ezicacile, okwenza indaba yonke ibe novalo nolwazi.

Ithempelo Esetshenziswayo: Faka uhlanya efanele ekuxoxeni kwezindaba zakho ukuze uthokozise izithameli futhi ubeqaphele. Sebenzisa ama-anecdotes anomzwangedwa ohlanya noma umdlalo oyisidleke ukuze unciphise umoya, kodwa qiniseka ukuthi uhlelwe kahle nemigomo yendaba yakho.

Umfanekiso Wokuhlanganyela: Ukwenza Okukhuluma Ngolimi

Njengomlobi, ubuchwepheshe bukaBrown bokujikeleza nolimi lubalulekile ekuxoxeni izindaba. Uhlafuna izigameko zalezi zigaba, ugcizelela izinto ezibalulekile nokugcina ukuxhumana okuthokozisayo kwezingqondo zezithameli.

Ithempelo Esetshenziswayo: Qaphela ulwazi nobungako bokukhuluma kwakho. Qhubeka uqhulula, shintsha ithoni, ijubane, nezimfashini ukuze ugcizelele izingxenye ezibalulekile zendaba. Lokhu kugcizelela kuzokwandisa umphumela wokuzwela futhi kugcine izithameli zakho zikhululekile.

Imfundo Yokwazisa: Ukuhamba Komuzwa Wezithameli

ULes Brown uqonda uhambo lwemizwa lwezithameli zakhe, ehla phezulu ezikhathini ezahlukahlukene zomuzwa ukuze ashiywe negalelo elikhulu. Ngokwakha imkhosi yokuthola emotweni phakathi kwezindaba zakhe, uqinisekisa ukuthi abazwile akukhona ngaphakathi njengoba bahlukana.

Ithempelo Esetshenziswayo: Qamba indaba yakho ukuze uthathe izithameli ohambo lwezomoya. Qala ngesimo esibangela umuzwa wokuthakasela noma ukukhathazeka, uthuthukisa uhmbo oluhlanganyela nezinto ezinjengokhophi kinokholo noma umcabango, bese uqeda ngesixazululo esikhiphe umyalezo ohehayo.

Ukukhulisa Umfanekiso: Ukuhlelela Imifanekiso Ngamagama

Ukuxoxa izindaba kahle kuvame ukufaka izithombe ezichwepheshile, futhi uBrown ulungile ekupheleni imifanekiso ngamagama akhe. Ngokuchaza izigameko nemizwa ngezincazelo ezinzulu, uvumela izithameli ukuthi ziqonde futhi zikhiglise esigcawini, okwandisa ukuxhumana kahle.

Ithempelo Esetshenziswayo: Sebenzisa ulimi oluchazayo ukuze udale imifanekiso ecwebezela emkhayeni. Faka imininingwane yokukhumbula okuphakeme, okukhanga ezicini zokubona, ukuzwakala, ukuthinta, ukujabulela, nasekuphuma, okwenza izithameli zakho zidere bangcagementi ezindabeni zakho.

Amandla Okuphinda: Ukucacisa Imiyalezo Ebalulekile

Ukuphinda kubalulekile ekuxoxeni izindaba zikaBrown, kunikeza imiyalezo ebalulekile futhi kuqinisekisa ukuthi ihambelana nezithameli. Ngokuphindaphinda ezinye izigigaba, uBrown uhlanganisa izifo eziphakathi kokukhuluma kwakhe.

Ithempelo Esetshenziswayo: Thola imilayezo eyinhloko ofuna izithameli zakho zikhumbula bese ufinyelela izindlela zokuphinda. Lokhu kungenziwa ngama-phrases aphindaphinywe, ukubuyisela izifundo ezibalulekile ezindabeni ezahlukahlukene, noma ukuhlela ezinye iziqu ngalolu suku ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukusimama kwabo.

Ukukhuthaza Umzimba: Ukuxhasa Amazwi Akho

Uhlobo lomzimba lukaLes Brown lunomthelela omkhulu ekuxoxeni izindaba, lugqugquzela amazwi akhe nokwandisa ukulethwa okujabulisayo. Amagezi, ubuchwepheshe bokubukeka, nokuhamba kwezithameli kusiza ukuchaza imizwa nokugcizelela izinto, okwenza indaba ibe nempilo.

Ithempelo Esetshenziswayo: Qaphela uhlobo lomzimba wakho uma uxoxa indaba. Sebenzisa imishiyane ukuze ubonise imininingwane, ukugcina ukuxhumana ngamehlo ukuze uvumelane nezithameli zakho, futhi uhamba ngamathuba ukuze ube nenhloso ekukhaleni kwakho. Ukhuluma nezinsiza zomzimba wakho nezwi lakho kuzokwandisa umthelela wokukhuluma.

Ukuphetha: Ukucoka Izindaba Ezikhuluma Ngolwazi Olukhulu

Imfihlo yokukhuluma kukaLes Brown inikeza uhlaka lokuguqula ukukhuluma emphakathini kusuka kumsebenzi onzima kube isiphakamiso esijabulisayo. Ngokwamukela ukukhumbuleka, ukwakha izindaba ezicacile, nokusebenzisa ubukhona, ihlaya, nokusetshenziswa kwezilimi kahle, abakhulumeli bangakha izithameli zabo futhi bashiye umthelela omangalisayo. Ekugcineni, ubuciko bokuxoxa izindaba bujolisa ekuxhumaneni, ekukhuthazeni, nasekukhulumeni ngokukhanya nangokuphila—izimiso ezilungisa noma iyiphi imizamo yokukhuluma emphakathini ukusuka ekwehlulekeni kuya empumelelweni.