Fumanisa indlela endaguqule ngayo umphakathi wam ophukileyo waba yimbali yokubuyisela umva ekhuthazayo ngokujolisa kumakhono amokhulumayo kwaye ndaphumelela emsebenzini wam owamkela!
Ubuthakathi Bam Be-Interview (Futhi Uhowu Ndibuyile!)
OMG besties, ndiva ngentla ngeziganeko ezidlalisa umhlathi kodwa zishintsha ubomi bempilo yebhizinisi lam! 🫣 Uyiya na kwiimzuzu apho ucabanga ukuba unayo yonke into ilawulwe, emva koko ubomi bukhawuleza baphosa umgxobhozo? Ewe, le yenzeka phakathi kwemibhalo.
Imba Nombono Wam
Cinga ngolu suku: Umntwana wam ufumene umyalezo ovula ngeyona nto sikwi Miami's fashion startups ezishushu. Sithetha ngenkampani ebandakanyekayo kumphandle wendawo yeSouth Beach. Ndandinokulandela uhambo lwabo ukusukela xa benza umphandle, ngoku babe sebankulunkulu. Umphezulu? Umphakathi wezibalo eziphathekayo – ngempela umsebenzi wam owamukelekileyo!
Umjikelo Wokulungiselela
Ndachitha iintsuku ndilungiselela. Iimpahla zam? Ukuphelela – ibhuluzi ye thrift ebiquele nezinto zam eziphathekayo! Iphothifoliyo yam? Inyaniso! Ndandinamashashalazi eendaba zam ezilungileyo, umphakathi othethelekileyo onokwenza umphakathi ophambili akhathazeke, kunye nezequlukhulu ezilungiselelweyo ukuya.
Kodwa nantsi apho izinto zaba... mngeni. 💀
Iingxaki Zokufunyanwa
Ndaya kuloo hlelo lokucacisa ndiziva njengomlingisi ophambili, kodwa kanti ndavula umlomo wam ukuba ndizazise, kwangoko ndvuma. Ilizwi lethu lonke lalisithi "ukuba," "um," okanye "uyazi." Ndandivuyela njengomntwana omdala!
"Ngoko apha, ndiyazisa, um, ukwakha umxholo o, uyazi, ukufaneleka neGen Z..."
Nithanda, ndandivuma ukuba ndiyabona ukujolisa kwentolongo kwiimeko. Uthando lwakhe olufudumeleyo lwalushintshile kancinci, lwaluphuma kumajoni engcanga nendibala. Ukukhathala kwam kudlula kancinci, imbi incinci lezo kukho. Kwakufana nomzimba wam ukanikisa ukuba ndikhumbule indlela yokwakha izivakaliso ezipheleleyo ngaphandle kokugxila kwizinto ezingafunekiyo.
I-Signal yokuvuka
Ngemini embalwa, ndafumana i-imeyile ethi "enxibayo ngexesha lakho, kodwa..." Ndandidumala. Kodwa endaweni yokuhlala emaphathini ami (hayi, mhlawumbi ndandihlala ngamathanda amane bedlala iifashoni), ndecide ukudibanisa le L ibe yi-zinye 'ngokufumaneka'.
Umphanda Owenzekile
Ngeendaba zedrama ngexesha leTikTok (njengokuba kwenzekile emva kokukhetha umphumela), ndafumanisa ividiyo malunga nentsebenzo yobuchule. Umphandi waphawula i- ithuluzi elinceda ukususa amagama angafunekiyo emlonyeni wakho. Kwakufana nokufumana umnqophiso wokuphucula umphakathi!
Uhambo lokuguqulwa
Ndaqala ukufunda nale thuluzi yonke imihla. Irekhoda ilizwi lakho kwaye isebenzisa i-AI ukulawula la magama angafunekiyo ngexesha lokwenene. Isiqholo esikhethekileyo? Kufana nokubona uqeqesho lomntwana oqhelekileyo ongekho ecela ukuphuma phantsi.
Nantsi le nto ndiyifumene ngexesha lam:
- Amagama angafunekiyo avame ukuvela kwiingxaki kunye nokungakhumbuli kakhulu
- Iimpause ezingenakukhumbula zenza ubonakale ngempumelelo nangokucuhlwa
- Ukukhulumisa ngokuphindeleyo kunceda ukuphatha umphakathi
- Ukurekhoda kwegama lakho kuthanda ukujoyina kodwa kufanelekile
Ibali Lokubuyisela
Ukufikelela kwiiveki ezintathu zokuphinda-phindeka, kuyavela? Omnye umphako uphume – lo mkhulu wombhoxo ungaphezulu!
Umahluko? Ubumnyama nobumnyama, bestie!
Endaweni "um" kunye "ukuba" emzuzu nanye, ndakhulumisa ngempumelelo. Xa ndifuna umjikelo wokucinga, ndawuphosa umjelo omkhulu endaweni yokuphosa iingxaki. Umphandi wayephila nothambo emalungiselele ekhhamini!
Umgxobhozo
Hayi, andikaze ndiyeke ukunceda umphandi, kumphando, umphimha kuza ne ngerizma! Ibhala lo mhlangano "ubuchule bendalo" ngamazwi emvumi! Ngaba singakhankanya umphunga? 👏
Iziqhamo zeziqala (Futhi Konke Okunye!)
Nantsi eyona nto endifuna ukuba uyifunde kwimfundo yam:
- Amagama angafunekiyo anokuthintela umphakathi ophumelelayo
- Ukukhumbula kuyisigaba sokuqala sokuphucula
- Ukusebenzisa amathuluzi afanelekileyo kudala imfundo ithaka
- Ukurekhoda kwiingxakiционный kungatshiya unhlanga
- Ukunqoba kukhumbula kucatshisa
Iingxoxo zempilo
Jonga, sonke sinamagama esiwabeka emizuzwini eqhwandileyo. Kwabanye, "ukuba", kwabanye, "ngokukhawuleza" okanye "ngokuphathekayo." Umphuli akukhumbula ukuba ubise ngaphakathi - kukuba umphandi.
Futhi hayi, ukuba uyavuya ngayo, khumbula ukuba umntwana wam uAisha wayezaqale apha! Le thuluzi endiyikhankanya ngaphambili ibiyintandokazi yam yokulungiselela imihlangano ebalulekileyo, izigqibo, kunye nokuveza umxholo wam uhlale ulungile! Ngumgibo kumonakalo ngokunyaniseka.
Ukuphelelisa KwamaVela
Namhlanje, ndiyinto ephezulu kumsebenzi wam omtsha, ndidala iindlela ezithile zokuphucula, kwaye ndiza kukhumbula ukufika kuthi ndithe ngengxaki. Futhi nangona ndiyibona kwilizwe lam ukusebenzisa amagama angafunekiyo ngamaxesha (sisoloko silungile, ngoko!), ndiyazi ngempumelelo ukuba ndiyavuma.
Khumbulani besties, yonke "um" kunye "ukuba" kungaguqulwa kube premiya ephumelelileyo. Iziqulatho zethu zibalulekile, ngoko ke sizisebenze! Futhi ukuba uhambise umgibeli kwiingxaki, nciphisa indlela yokuhlala ubudala umgibeli wazi nge thuluzi! Tyala mamela umtwana wakho uzokuzisa kakhulu! ✨
Ngoku xela - yintoni eyona ngxaki yakho yakhe? Khipha emaceleni! Futhi ungakulibali ukujolisa ngakumbi ukuze uziphumelelo ngokwenene nokuphucula imveliso! 💕
