Imbono ezikhethekileyo kunye neeZikhumbuzo zekujoliswa esidlangaleni, ukuthuthukiswa komntu, kunye nemigomo yokwakha
I-imposter syndrome ingaphazamisa ukukhula komntu kunye nomsebenzi, kodwa ukuqonda le ngxaki yangaphakathi kukhumbuza umphakathi wokuqala wokuyiphumelela. U-Mel Robbins unika izicwangciso ezisebenzisekayo zokuphinda ufumane ukuzithemba ngokuphikisana nokungaboni kakuhle kwaye wamkele iimpazamo.
Fumanisa indlela uVinh Giang ahambisa ngayo imboniso yomphakathi ngeetekhnoloji ezintsha ezithuthukisa ukusebenzisana kwabaphulaphuli kunye nokusebenza komphakathi.
KwiZwi leNtlalo, imizuzu yokuqala ingenza okanye iphule umphakathi. U-Vinh Giang, umphakathi ophumelelayo, ufumene ubuchule bokwenza imiqobo emihle edibanisa abaphulaphuli ukusuka ekuqaleni ngemicimbi yokuzonwabisa, ukuxoxa amabali, kunye nezixhobo zokukhuluma ezicwangcisiweyo.
Ekukhulumeni emphakathini nasezingxoxweni ezingenakuhlelwa, amandla okucacisa imicabango ngokukhawuleza kubalulekile. Abaninzi bahlupheka ngengxaki yokukhathazeka kwiimeko zokukhuluma ezingalindelekanga, kodwa iindlela ezivela kwi-improvisation zinokuguqula le ngxaki ibe yikhono.
Endaweni egcwele yokukhuthaza imvelo, iziqubulo eziningi zezemvelo zihluleka ukuheha ushintsho ngenxa yokuthembela kwazo kumazinga nezibalo. Ukushintsha kube indlela yokuxoxa izindaba kungadala uxhumano lweemvakalelo olukhuthaza ababukeli ukuba benze isenzo.
Ukukhulumela abantu kusekelwe ekuqinisekiseni isakhiwo, imizwa, nokubandakanywa, njengokwakhiwa kahle kwesigwebo. ULes Brown ubonisa lokhu ngokuxoxa izigameko ezikhangayo ezithokozisa ababukeli.
Ukukhathazeka kwesehlakalo ngumphakathi ophakathi, uthinta wonke umntu ukusuka kwiingcali zansuku zonke ukuya kwiingcali ezifana noZendaya. Ukuqonda imvelaphi yayo kunye nokufunda iistrateji kungasiza ukuguqula le nkxalabo ibe yimiphumo emangalisayo.
Ukukhathazeka kwezigcawu kuthinta abaningi abaculi futhi kungaphazamisa ukuzethemba. Le ndatshana ihlola ukuthi kanjani ama-rhythms omculi uVinh Giang angasiza ekunciphiseni ukukhathazeka kokusebenza, inikeza izindlela nezinsiza zokwethula ngempumelelo.
Ukukhuluma public kuyisaba esijwayelekile esingavimbela ukukhula komuntu siqu kanye nezenzo. Umphakathi kaVinh Giang unikeza amasu ahlukile nokusekelwa ukusiza abantu ukuthi baphumelele ezinsabeni zabo zokukhuluma public ngokuqhubekayo kokufunda nokusekelwa kwabanye.